Certified Trauma Informed Life & Relationship Coaching

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Embrace The Pause


In the space between what was and what's next, transformations begins. The pause isn't the ending--it's a moment to breathe, reflect, and realign. Embracing the pause allows you to process, heal, and step forward with clarity and purpose. Your next chapter begins here.

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Sex Education & Intimacy Coaching

Coaching for Men

Coaching for Women

Become A More Confident You

As a Whole Person Coach, I will work with you to explore how every  aspect of your life plays a part in creating the person that you are. Exploring your individual gifts and talents will bring you the confidence you need to succeed in the areas you wish to.

Build Trust

I will be empathetic and authentic in our communications. Together we will share information honestly and openly, while maintaining appropriate boundaries.  I will honor your trust by keeping sensitive information confidential.

Look Forward to Your Future

Together we will identify what you want to achieve in different areas of your life, such as career, relationships, health, personal growth, or hobbies. I will guide you in creating specific, realistic, and achievable goals that align with your values and passions. 

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After a divorce, self-confidence was very difficult for me. I was always looking at myself and questioning whether I was good enough. Working with Genna changed all of that. Her down to earth style goal-setting approach to coaching changed everything. I feel more confident and know how to change my thinking to focus on thoughts and feelings I can control.

-Joseph

Pittsburgh, PA

By Genna Marie July 27, 2025
How to hold onto yourself when things get tense Uncomfortable conversations are a part of life. Whether it’s a disagreement with a partner, an awkward talk with a family member, or confronting a friend who crossed a line — tough moments will find us. And when they do, it’s easy to lose your footing. You might find yourself going silent to avoid conflict, saying things you don’t mean, or walking away feeling drained and unsettled. But what if you could stay grounded, clear, and true to yourself — even when the conversation feels messy or hard? ⸻ 1. Anchor Yourself Before You Speak Before the conversation even starts, check in with yourself: • What am I feeling right now? • What do I hope will come from this conversation? • What do I want to make sure I don’t compromise on? Example Practice: Take 3 minutes to write in your notes app: • “I feel frustrated because I haven’t felt heard.” • “I want more understanding — not just to be ‘right.’” • “I don’t want to leave this conversation doubting my worth.” Even this brief prep work can shift your entire approach. ——— 2. Lead With Curiosity, Not Defense It’s natural to feel defensive when something lands the wrong way. But instead of jumping in with: “That’s not true.” Try: “Can you say more about what you mean?” “I hear you — but I’m not sure I understand yet.” This keeps the conversation from spiraling and helps you stay present without needing to agree. Example Practice: Pause for just 5 seconds before replying — and choose a “curious opener” instead of a rebuttal. Write a few go-to lines you can use when your emotions rise: • “I want to understand your point, but I’m having a reaction right now.” • “Let’s slow this down — this matters to me.” ⸻ 3. Listen to Hear — Not Just to Respond In uncomfortable conversations, it’s easy to listen while preparing your defense. But when we do that, we miss the actual message — and conversations become battles instead of bridges. Example Practice: Try this during your next tough conversation: • When they finish speaking, repeat back what you heard: “What I’m hearing is that you felt left out when I didn’t include you in that decision. Is that right?” • Let them clarify if needed. Only then — after they feel heard — share your perspective. This doesn’t mean you have to agree. It means you’re choosing connection over combat. ⸻ 4. Protect Your Calm Without Playing Small You can be calm and firm. You can hold your boundary without raising your voice. Example Practice: Practice a few lines aloud before the conversation — just like you’d rehearse a presentation: • “I want to continue this conversation, but not like this.” • “It’s important to me that we both feel respected — and I’m feeling a little overwhelmed right now.” • “Let’s pause. I want to respond with care, not defensiveness.” ______ How I Can Help If you’re facing a conversation that feels overwhelming, emotional, or uncomfortable — you don’t have to go in alone. I offer 1:1 coaching sessions to help you: • Sort through your thoughts and emotions beforehand • Understand your needs and how to express them • Prepare your language with confidence and care • Stay regulated and grounded — no matter the outcome Together, we’ll practice clarity without defensiveness. Boundaries without shutdown. Truth without fear. Message me to book a session. You deserve support that honors your voice — and your peace.
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